The game, in six steps
How This Works
SexPoints turns everyday appreciation into a playful game between you and your partner. Here's how it fits together.
The cycle, at a glance
Every round of the game follows the same loop — a little appreciation, a little play, a shared reward. Tap the on any step for examples.
- Pair uplink with a couple code
- Earn pointsappreciation, check-ins
- Challengesagree or decline
- Spin the wheelfate decides
- Redeem rewardsask your partner
- Partner approvesyes, later, or no
Consent at every step — either partner can decline anything, with no penalty.
Private by design — your game is visible only to the two of you.
1. Pair up
Both partners create an account and link together with a couple code. Everything you do from then on is shared between just the two of you.
2. Earn points
Give your partner points for the things you appreciate — big or small. Or submit a claim and let them approve it. A daily check-in earns points too, with a bonus every seventh day in a row.
3. Take on challenges
Pick challenges from the library or propose your own. Each has agreed point values for completing it — and either partner can decline anything, no penalty.
4. Spin the wheel
Add playful consequences to the wheel and let fate decide. You both approve what goes on it, and either of you can pass without losing points.
5. Redeem rewards
Spend your points on rewards you defined together — a massage, breakfast in bed, a night off chores. Rewards can be declined, and declining refunds the points in full.
6. Stay private
Only the two of you see your game. Points are about appreciation and effort — they never buy or require intimacy, and everything happens with consent.
Requests and consent
- Redeeming points is never automatic. You ask, and your partner approves or declines before any points come off.
- Either partner can make their own intimacy request, with a title, a sweet note, a timing and an optional point offer of up to 100.
- Your partner can accept, suggest another time, or decline. Declining is always free, with no penalty and no reason needed.
- Points are held while a request waits and come back in full if it's declined or cancelled. Either of you can change your mind at any time.
The Vendor Marketplace
Alongside the game you play together, SexPoints connects you with businesses that specialise in romance — date-night experiences, gifts, getaways and more. Here's how it works:
- Real businesses apply to join, and every vendor is reviewed and approved by our team before their listings go live.
- Approved vendors create listings — offers, experiences and sponsored date-night ideas — that couples can browse in the Marketplace.
- You always see who is behind a listing, and you choose what to explore. Nothing is ever pushed on you.
- Your game stays yours: vendors never see your points, challenges, rewards or anything else between you and your partner.
Think of it as a curated date-night directory living next to your game — useful when you want it, invisible when you don't. Vendors can also run sponsored offers, which are clearly labelled and never affect your points or your privacy.
Ready to start playing?
Create your account, pair up with your partner, and send your first points today.
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